I’ve all but abandoned the apps I was using. So… 24 hours ago, I decided to give a new one a go.
Like the others, it promises anonymity if you’re out there liking guys left and right and don’t want them to know unless they like you two. The other apps stated they had this thing but then there would be all these notifications from men you didn’t even see who were “matches” and there’s this realization that every time you clicked “like” those guys got a message. GAH!
Seems not to be the case with this one. I have not gotten a single “like” from some random. Everything has been “mutual.”
It eases the mind some. AND… I am attracting a higher class of guy than I previously thought. I just now put a description. It probably won’t affect it in anyway as I’m not reading them unless I can’t decide in 10 seconds if I want to “yep” or “nope.”
I get carried away with the “nopes.” I’m picky but I’m 33. I need to be.
I’ve only had one brave soul message me so far and it was EARLY this morning. He kept checking on me throughout the day and I managed to glance at one or two of the messages while I was pretending to read messages from my boss. I used that cover all damned day whenever anyone questioned why my phone was out.
It’s a little confidence booster. I’ve got like 10 “mutuals” right now.
But I am also tired. I’m actually supposed to be working on something right now but I was doing half-hearted research and then started playing with the app…
Also… how does one take a decent selfie? I can’t manage it. I don’t have an easy smile that I can just pull out of nowhere. I’m told my smile is wonderful but I always feel fake when there’s a camera. I just… I can’t do the selfie!!!